~I'm COMPLAINING..~

I'm withdrawing Daniyal from the child care.. yes I am.. as it is the FINAL straw..Disgusted by the staff and the P's attitude..

What happened? Read this..

The P was trying to get hold of me over the phone but I was busy at home (on MC mah so sleep lah)..so she called my husband and here goes the conversation (hub related them to me and he too was equally
offended)

P: Hi, I'm looking for Sheila. Is she around with you?
H: Nope. She's at home and I'm outside.
P: Is there a way that I can get her?
H: Hm... what is it regarding? Maybe I can help.. (afterall, he's Daniyal's dad, mah)
P: Oh.. actually I need to speak to Sheila on some administrative affairs
H: Hm.. Ok. If i can't be of help then I will reach her and let her know u're looking for her..
P: How are u gonna reach her when I can't reach her myself??! (the tone higher)
H: Hello.. she's my wife.. I have my means..( meaning: He can reach me through my mom or
younger sis whose obviously with me at home and are not sleeping, mah )
P: OK then..

Hub called MOM and MOM told me to give the P a callback.. So I did.. and I don't see the rush in the forms that she wanted cos it was only w.e.f next month.. but i understand that some schools are very concern and anal when it comes to school fees, but then again, I have never missed paying a single month at all.. :((

So u think this is nothing? Then what about this.

This morning... after MOM sent Daniyal to school she called me..

M: I just send Daniyal and brought along his medications... I hate to see the P's face lah.
S: Why? What happened now?
M: I need to write in the book right regarding the instructions for Daniyal's medications but u know lah
I can't see and I can't write..(Mom is non-english educated).. then the P say.. "Next time wear yourglasses, then can see" then she looked at the medicines.. "Y the medicines sooo sticky2"? Of cos lah sticky because it just came out from the fridge mah..

I can imagine how was the conversation and how dominating the P sounded because I too have been in that situation before.. You need to be someone of her level in order to communicate with her or else she'll treat you like sampah! My mom in non-english educated, yes.. but she is after all a human.. and instead of being helpful (whats wrong with helping mom to write the medicine instructions right?) she is being spiteful. I can't tolerate this kind of attitude and I seconded MOM and Hub when they suggest I pulled Daniyal out of the centre, I did want to pull him out once but the P turned the tables around and for once, she showed a nice side of hers.. God knows wether that is facade!!

And, do you know that one fine day, they did not bathe Daniyal in school?? Now, how can a simple task of bathing children can be overlooked?? There was once Daniyal came home with soiled pampers full of faeces and from the look of it, the faeces had been there for sometime.. and they did not change his diapers. How? U tell me how!!!! and they talked abt personal hygiene in school somemore.. aiyooh..

I guess, withdrawing him from the centre is the best choice of all.. and Thank god! Since MOM agreed to care for Daniyal.. I only need to send him to a playgroup session for 2-3 hrs a day for his brain stimulating and intellectual purposes.. I really can't count on other ppl to care for my child.. I think having a mommy around is still the best.. How can a grandma overlooked on things like bathing and changing diapers, right? Not to mention abt food.. Hub wanted me to lodge a complaint or at least a feedback to MCYS.. I am still contemplating.. What do u think?

Should I or should I not?? *pondering*

But I really wanna give the P a piece of my mind.. Maybe she thinks she holds a BA degree in childcare she is BIG shot!! C'mon lah.. so what if u're P.. ur salary and ur income still rely on the children admission.. no kids enrolment in ur centre means u got lesser income.. so bottomline is..

I'M PAYING YOUR SALARY!
*out*